From Echo, via votania

[azurelunatic]

questions to think about in regards to that special someone in your life:

do you constantly think about them?
is it in an over obsessed way?
when you think of them, is it only in a lustful way?
if it isn't only in a lustful way, what other thoughts do you have?
do you get urges to drive out to see them in the middle of the night, just because you miss them?
do you think of doing nice things for them, just to make them happy, and no other reason?
if not, what are the other reasons?
are those reasons valid for doing it?
do you go out of your way for them?
is it so much so that things in your life don't get done because of it?
do you fight constantly?
if not, what are the reasons you keep the peace?
do you fight occasionally?
if so, how often?
about what?
can you literally tell them ANYTHING irregardless of what it is?

if you have kids...
how do they behave towards your child/ren?
do you obsess over them so much your child/ren is neglected?
how does your child/ren feel about them?
do they make an effort to teach your child good family values?
do they forget their own values and only try to teach what you see as valuable? (in my opinion..if they do...this proves they are a suckup and are after something you have that they want.)
do they make an effort to teach your child in general?
if they read to your child, that would be a good example.

more questions:
what are those annoying little habits they have?
what are your annoying little habits that bothers them?
on your side...can you deal with them...REALLY? (that's a tough one for those I've questioned about it)
on their side (from your perspective) can they deal with yours?

I'm going to be answering these. Depending on how personal it gets, it may or may not wind up getting posted publicly.