azurelunatic | Acid Test (cross-posted to polyamory)

Well... Adam and I are seeing how well polyamory works in a firsthand sort of situation. I didn't get to see much of him today because, first, he was very busy with teachers with their classes in his lab, and when he's busy his first priority is work. Understandable. I helped with a few issues in lab too, simply because I know Visual Basic well enough to help most of the questions a beginning student will have, and I had the spare time.

The second reason: there was a girl in the lab that Adam wished to perhaps take out for lunch. I'm not so sure of his ethics in this regard -- I do not know whether he is planning to tell this other girl that he is also seeing me -- but I do know that he wanted to be visibly Not Taken for her, before letting her know that he does have someone, but the someone does not mind him dating other people.

I would have minded if he hadn't told me beforehand, or (if he hadn't gotten the chance) near-immediately afterward...

...it's nice, having someone who communicates, and furthermore, someone who cares enough to grab you and give you a very nice kiss in the explanation of lunch plans, even though the girl is still in the lab ...