Well, while I hadn't actually slept with a gay guy until last year...the first guy I *ever* slept with had had sex with one other guy. Sort of an experimentation thing in his mid-teens. Still counts, though. *rolling eyes* Doesn't matter that it's been TWENTY years now and he's still HIV-free. As am I, having just had another test for it while I was pregnant. *shrug* Of course, I have a more recent addition to that question now...but I haven't been able to give blood for most of my adult life, since they *started* asking that question.