I don't recall exactly when, but I think there was a period around 2004 maybe when there was this distinct vide of EW HET in the circles I frequented at the time. I was mostly just reading slash and basically nothing else, and it was Harry Potter fandom, but I remember it felt like a slap in the face after the knee in the groin that was OMG GAY. I like my het just fine. Just about as much as I like my femmeslash and my slash, thank you very much. But it still felt as if liking both or all three was some kind of warning sign that I needed to be taken back to the fandom workshop and have my springs repaired or something.