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azurelunatic) wrote2002-10-10 11:52 am
azurelunatic) wrote2002-10-10 11:52 am
From Echo, via votania
questions to think about in regards to that special someone in your life:
do you constantly think about them?
is it in an over obsessed way?
when you think of them, is it only in a lustful way?
if it isn't only in a lustful way, what other thoughts do you have?
do you get urges to drive out to see them in the middle of the night, just because you miss them?
do you think of doing nice things for them, just to make them happy, and no other reason?
if not, what are the other reasons?
are those reasons valid for doing it?
do you go out of your way for them?
is it so much so that things in your life don't get done because of it?
do you fight constantly?
if not, what are the reasons you keep the peace?
do you fight occasionally?
if so, how often?
about what?
can you literally tell them ANYTHING irregardless of what it is?
if you have kids...
how do they behave towards your child/ren?
do you obsess over them so much your child/ren is neglected?
how does your child/ren feel about them?
do they make an effort to teach your child good family values?
do they forget their own values and only try to teach what you see as valuable? (in my opinion..if they do...this proves they are a suckup and are after something you have that they want.)
do they make an effort to teach your child in general?
if they read to your child, that would be a good example.
more questions:
what are those annoying little habits they have?
what are your annoying little habits that bothers them?
on your side...can you deal with them...REALLY? (that's a tough one for those I've questioned about it)
on their side (from your perspective) can they deal with yours?
I'm going to be answering these. Depending on how personal it gets, it may or may not wind up getting posted publicly.
Interesting.
I won't be posting it, at least not ... well, maybe as a friend's only post. Hmmm.
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It is this: It is REAL love. It is TRUE. It's NOT obsession. I want only to care for her. I want only to be near her. I don't neglect myself in the proccess, yet I'd lay my life down for her. It's beyond flesh, beyond finances. It's about the mind and the heart. It's about wants and needs and what is in between. I care more for her comfort than my own. To just talk to her on the phone is a wonderful thing. Anything more is beyond words. It's deep. It's actual. It's spiritual.
I think she may know what my answers to those questions are. I'll tell her if she asks. I trust her. I always have.
Well, time will tell. One day at a time. In the mean time, enjoy. Live. Be happy. I know I am. :)
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Occasionally I get obsessive; oftentimes, he's just there, just as someone who I have a permanent link to would be...
Not always lustful. In fact, more often not than lustful. Happy, wistful, should-tell-about 'cause-he'd-get-a-kick-out-of-it ... in every aspect of my life, my thoughts about him tend to share him into it.
Drive out to see him in the middle of the night just 'cause I miss him ... no, not really. I wouldn't get any sleep, and neither would he, and we both need our sleep. Wish he were lying next to me, yes. Drive out to see him when neither of us are doing anything and want to see him, yeah. The middle of the night's a little inappropriate, unless he were a night owl...
Nice things to make happy... the look of surprised delight on his face is wonderful. When I think of something that can make him look like that... if it's within reason, and there aren't other priorities, I'd do that to see that grin.
I have other reasons of procrastination higher on the list than Darkside.
Fight constantly? We're not whacking over the head so much anymore. But rarely fighting. When we do fight, we try to work out the differences as soon as possible, because it tears both of us up.
Re: Interesting.