I have armed a monster...

[azurelunatic]

I decided that Chick and Dude needed their sex life spiced up a little, or if not their sex life, then their weirdness factor.

I donated my tickler-thing, my velcro handcuffs, and the blindfold to the cause.

So far, the tickler-thing with the little rubber strings has become, among other things, a cat toy.

I'm not sure if I'm going to want their eventual return or not.

Comments

[todfox.livejournal.com]

Good choice on the sex toys.

I'm a big fan of my neuro-wheel...

[azurelunatic]

What in the world is a neuro wheel?

[todfox.livejournal.com]

A Neuro Wheel is also known as a Whartenburg Pinwheel (http://www.darkfiregallery.com/Merchant2/merchant.mv?Screen=PROD&Store_Code=DFG99&Product_Code=3_7_001&Category_Code=fav). that link actually goes to the store I bought mine from.

Although it looks fairly menacing, the sensations when it is run very lightly along your skin is truly exquisite, but fairly indescribable. The sharp points do wonderful things to your nerves.

[punklady.livejournal.com]

i luuuuuve tickler things...and blindfolds are the ultimate...you bad bad girl, he he

[azurelunatic]

Actually, I never got a chance to use any of those very much. With BJ, I was hypersensitive and claustrophobic and not very much fun to play with.

These days, I don't have anyone to play with. I think I'd trust Darkside to tie me up and stuff (I didn't trust BJ, and that was a large part of the breakup) but he's not ready for any sort of relationship yet.

Re:

[punklady.livejournal.com]

ah i see....

[todfox.livejournal.com]

Trust is so very important when you are getting into any BDSM play. But I think people often overlook the importance of trust in purely vanilla sex too. Heck, I think even people who don't get kinky should have a safe-word...

safe word

[azurelunatic]

Pyrogenic had a safe word for tickling back in the day. We thought it was hilariously funny and absolutely necessary.

Trust is vital for any close association, sex or no.