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Azure Jane Lunatic (Azz) 🌺 ([personal profile] azurelunatic) wrote2003-01-24 11:32 am

Strength

I recently startled [livejournal.com profile] ralmathon by picking him up and spinning him around before putting him down again. He's not used to people picking him up, especially not women. He's taller than I am, and likely weighs 200 pounds or more. He's taller than I am, and solidly built: the sort of guy that kids climb and bounce on without much risk of him collapsing.

As an adult, I've never thought of myself as particularly strong. Sure, I can carry [livejournal.com profile] marxdarx with relative ease: he's thin! He's a toothpick! He's tiny! I can pick up [livejournal.com profile] votania in a hug and spin her around a couple times. I can haul most small furniture by myself. (small = no larger than a standard couch) But can't everyone?

[livejournal.com profile] votania and the Viking agree, much to my surprise, that I'm about as strong as a man. I learned this when the Viking was teaching me the basics of fistfighting.

I tend not to regard anything I do as exceptional, and am surprised when other people can't do things I regard as normal. The phrase "You mean not everybody can..." was a recurring theme from my childhood.