Awake.

[azurelunatic]

Everything's usually better in the morning, though I'm still a little irked.

I see every reason for me to be irked. I see no reason for me to have had a nice little panic attack. No logical reason relating to the situation, that is. Yes, he's phobic of housework and careless of his responsibilities relating to it, largely because his responsibilities with housework are so loosely defined. Now that he's getting less phobic about it, it's probably time to make the definitions better. But all of those are Known Issues, and he and I have been living together, with those issues known, for quite some time.

And even while the issues are known, they are also not my responsibility. If anyone is going to be delivering an ass-kicking over housework, it is votania.


Nope. I fear that our friend PMS had something to do with this. It's well-documented that I have a loooovely meltdown about something that's been bothering me, the night before Bitchy Witchy Week hits full-force with the bleeding, and I go all bats over it. It's never something that actually doesn't bother me. It's something that bothers me deep-down. I just don't need to react that badly about it.

Comments

[cissa.livejournal.com]

That sounds EXACTLY like me, meltdowns, provocation and all. For a while I'd "save" up some things to deal with then, like nasty consumer complaint letters and the like. When I remember, that works pretty well.

[azurelunatic]

Realized what I was doing when I re-read Cyteen for the nth time. Works for Ari, and I have a foul enough temper to make it useful...

[hookncrook.livejournal.com]

Maybe a house cleaning schedule is in order for less upset to occur in the future. Even if it is because you are PMSing it still is just your feelings beng raw and those feelings should be taken into account by the community and acted upon so you don't meltdown again about it.

And if this guy choses to live in a house with a kid he better get less phobic about cleaning!

[azurelunatic]

I melt down once a month regardless.

But yeah. It would be good to reduce the number of things that I can melt down about.