Nope - maybe seeing it this way will help her too. I keep trying, but since I'm the only one she will confide in, it's hard. I'm always on the lookout for words and perspectives I think might help.
There are some things that should never be rushed to be forgiven. If you find yourself in a place where you *can* forgive someone who had been an ass-bastard in the past, that's great. But it's not your responsibility to shove yourself into forgiving them, because that hurts you.
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Something I need to share with a friend.
Thanks
-the redhead-
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There are some things that should never be rushed to be forgiven. If you find yourself in a place where you *can* forgive someone who had been an ass-bastard in the past, that's great. But it's not your responsibility to shove yourself into forgiving them, because that hurts you.
Grarh. Some people.