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Azure Jane Lunatic (Azz) 🌺 ([personal profile] azurelunatic) wrote2003-06-05 02:00 am

Poly silliness...

Telling someone you have to break up with them, 'cause they just lost their Primary, and you refuse to be put in a position where you might accidentally turn into someone's Primary: you can't stand to be a one-and-only.

[identity profile] hai-kah-uhk.livejournal.com 2003-06-05 05:22 am (UTC)(link)
I dunno, that sounds awfully self-centered. What about care and concern for the other person? I've known a few polyamorous people who regarded their relationships as disposable, and I hate to judge, but that always seemed a little misguided to me. It sort of takes the "amour" out of "polyamoury."