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Azure Jane Lunatic (Azz) 🌺 ([personal profile] azurelunatic) wrote2003-07-07 01:59 pm

Kid management

Little Fayoumis is not allowed to whine at his friends. If he starts doing it particularly abominably, he gets sent to the corner (because it's becoming a real problem).

This morning, he said something in a yell/whine. I couldn't hear what it was because I was washing dishes with water running, but I did hear the tone. Not answering my question ("What did you just say?") for two minutes, and then saying "I forgot" is not guaranteed to put you on my list of wonderfully well-behaved little boys. Corner!

After a while, I took him to his room and explained what was up (you were told not to be saying things in that tone of voice, and you did, and guess what...). While that was going on, evidently his friend left. That's how it works sometimes...

When his friends go home for whatever reason, Little Fayoumis has a habit of standing by the door waiting for them to come back. Have tried to convince him that this is is not going to be a good plan; since I was sick of it, this time I ordered him to go play and have fun. (He was getting in my way while I was washing the door from the handprints and faceprints on it, as well.) He went. He played. He had fun. ...He just has to be reminded that this is what he should be doing when his friends aren't there.

*sigh*

It'll get better.

[identity profile] hookncrook.livejournal.com 2003-07-07 02:26 pm (UTC)(link)
My son, K, does the same thing...whisper or whine his replies or answers and when I ask him to repeat himself he mouths the words or says it even quieter...Oh, it pisses me off!

Kids

[identity profile] fmh.livejournal.com 2003-07-07 02:57 pm (UTC)(link)
My oldest girl is a drama _queen_. Every little thing is a tragedy. Now if she whines she gets sent to her room till she can knock it off.
Your demands are not at all unreasonable, neither is the punishment. I think it will get better.