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azurelunatic) wrote2001-10-21 09:30 am
azurelunatic) wrote2001-10-21 09:30 am
Frustration
Votania has a boyfriend who lives way the hell out in BFE. We have no car; for the past month or so his car's been broken. The schedule is that he visits approximately every other weekend, when things work out with his ex and his mother.
He was finally going to visit this weekend, today, because Uncle Alan went out there and fixed the damn car with him (big heavy parts; Votania forbade her boyfriend to install them by himself for fear they should fall on him and squish him, because he hasn't got the proper equipment to do it safely by himself).
Today it turns out that her boyfriend's mother, Mrs. Montague, has some stuff for him to do around the house, and even though he's somewhere between the ages of 24 and 26 with a daughter, he's still subject to the whims of Mommy until he gets himself the hell out of the way. There are, of course, reasons why he can't do this now; until he can, he's just going to wait and hold on and put up with everything Mommy bitches and orders him around. The guy's got the patience of a saint, except that Votania gets to listen to him bitch about all the drama that his mom and his ex go through. He's got to make up some bullshit excuse every time he visits Votania, and it's got to be watertight.
It doesn't help Votania's attitude that Adam visits me at least once a week, if not more. She's not going to be happy today.
He was finally going to visit this weekend, today, because Uncle Alan went out there and fixed the damn car with him (big heavy parts; Votania forbade her boyfriend to install them by himself for fear they should fall on him and squish him, because he hasn't got the proper equipment to do it safely by himself).
Today it turns out that her boyfriend's mother, Mrs. Montague, has some stuff for him to do around the house, and even though he's somewhere between the ages of 24 and 26 with a daughter, he's still subject to the whims of Mommy until he gets himself the hell out of the way. There are, of course, reasons why he can't do this now; until he can, he's just going to wait and hold on and put up with everything Mommy bitches and orders him around. The guy's got the patience of a saint, except that Votania gets to listen to him bitch about all the drama that his mom and his ex go through. He's got to make up some bullshit excuse every time he visits Votania, and it's got to be watertight.
It doesn't help Votania's attitude that Adam visits me at least once a week, if not more. She's not going to be happy today.