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Azure Jane Lunatic (Azz) 🌺 ([personal profile] azurelunatic) wrote2004-01-13 11:32 pm

Un-secret snark

God.

Maybe, someday, I will make a board/community that is for parents who can write only.

Have been in parenting community off LJ. Have just had brain go numb from all the "I can't spell and I don't give a shit" that has been displayed. Can't spell, can't write, probably can't think.

Am snarky. No longer give a fuck.

dh for dear hubby, dd for dear daughter, ds for dear son; FS for FUCKING STUPID.

-- my dh doesnt get along with my ds they fight all the time i dont kno what too do please give me some advise im desprit--

"Desprit", honey, I'm so sorry that DopeHead doesn't get along with DogShit. Were you looking for some advice, by chance? Advice is what people who aren't clueless morons seek from people. And then the other people advise those who aren't clueless morons. My advice: capital letters, apostrophes, and periods. archy you aren't, hon.


Why is it that boards devoted to the more "domestic" endeavors seem to be clogged with people who write like that? Perhaps because they were more focused on getting a husband than getting an "edjacashun"? Speaking of shun...

[identity profile] weruletheschool.livejournal.com 2004-01-13 10:37 pm (UTC)(link)
::snickerfit::

I love your brand of snarkiness. It states all the things I would like to, in great packaging. :D

[identity profile] talmanes.livejournal.com 2004-01-13 10:53 pm (UTC)(link)
I think, in this case, you need to reexamine your core user group. Computer users are, by and large, made up of cerebral loners lacking heavily in group social agendas. In other words, not a lot of parents in the bunch. This is not to say that there aren't a number of parents, but more to say that the percentage is very low.

Now, among that group of parents, most are older than the average computer-comfortable age, having grown up in a generation where computers were rare if not nonexistent. So when you talk about "other online parents," you're mostly talking about people who have computers but never learned how to type, have been out of school for so long that their English skills have atrophied, and who are generally not computer-savvy whatsoever but do not recognize this failing in themselves.

In other words, you're part of an idiot demographic, by no fault of your own.

At least they're not speaking 1337 or something equally inane. In this case it's just poor grammar and spelling, not intentional idiocy for the sake of k001n355.

[identity profile] tsiankiio.livejournal.com 2004-01-15 06:44 pm (UTC)(link)
wandered over from metaquotes....

I've always gotten the impression from those parenting boards, that those women were the moms who led the PTA. They did all the bakesales, drove their children where ever they wanted/needed to go, and then came home and cleaned up after them. Women who felt like their only accomplishment was to have children, who they then try and live through. They also seem to be the moms who try and get books banned from schools and think that their way of life is the only way of life and that the rest of us are going to hell in a handbasket. They also have no idea how to use spellcheck, because that's to technical for them and their husbands would have to come and explain how. I don't know, maybe we're frequenting different parenting boards.

[identity profile] boojum.livejournal.com 2004-01-14 12:28 am (UTC)(link)
Any form of 24/7 D&S relationship unnerves me. Nonconsensual ones are worse. (Although I still sometimes miss the friend who lost herself in the process of marrying someone I was later unsurprised to hear was a Promise Keeper, I actually do think she made a choice. A lot of these women don't seem to have.)

I'm also upset by the number of heterosexual women/men who seem to loathe men/women, particularly the one they're in a relationship with. Especially when they think all relationships work like that and try to include me in little "Don't husbands/girlfriends/boyfriends/wives suck?" huddles.

[identity profile] boojum.livejournal.com 2004-01-14 12:48 am (UTC)(link)
In my mind the only proper answer to the people who say things like that is, "Then why did you marry him?" or "Then why are you still dating him?" There is such a thing as friendly venting/teasing/insulting, and there is a distinctly fuzzy line between the friendly and the unfriendly, but most of the group complaints read to me as solidly in the hate and resentment side of the field.

I mean, yes, it is occasionally annoying to live with another person. He likes different foods and music than I do, and since we've got an apathy toilet seat policy (why do people assume that the only proper policy is to have the seat down, even in an all-male household? It's not a slap in the face unless you've agreed that it gets left down or it's a women's bathroom.) I do have the bother of checking the seat each time. Sometimes he just gets on my nerves, for whatever reason. Really, it has very little to do with the fact that he's male. The clutter differences between us create far more friction than any gender differences. If I were to sigh and say "Men!" when he was head-down in a computer game, I'd have to account for the time when I missed seeing a movie with him and friends because I was playing Tetris Attack. (He'd asked, when they left, if anyone wanted to go with them. I just hadn't heard, because I was playing the game.) Furthermore, if I were to sigh and say "Men!" when he did something I didn't like, I'd lose the ability to know him as his own person, not just as some representative of the Penis Collective. I didn't marry a generic man, just like I didn't marry a generic person or a generic computer geek or a generic long-haired person or a generic tidy person. I married him.

Err, sorry. I have Views on marriage and relationships. (summation: gender and number can change the shape of things, but don't necessarily matter. Not being an idiot or a jerk does. If it's drudgework, you're doing something wrong.) Rant done now, at least temporarily.

[identity profile] boojum.livejournal.com 2004-01-14 04:38 pm (UTC)(link)
Trying to determine which horrific assumption in the canned response should make my head explode first makes my head explode.

[identity profile] boojum.livejournal.com 2004-01-13 11:36 pm (UTC)(link)
These beings are very prevalent in the fibercrafts world. Many of them homeschool.

[identity profile] boojum.livejournal.com 2004-01-14 12:21 am (UTC)(link)
I don't actually know the general type, just the fibercrafting subtype. She has four or five kids and prefers to not make reproductive decisions, or possibly is unaware that she can.[1] She usually started having kids in her late teens or early twenties. She often signs email messages with "mommy to Tylyr, 4 and Mykknzee, 2, and Brandee, 2 months and four days tomorrow!". Some versions of her have no punctuation but the extended ellipsis. She lives in some midwestern state and has never in her life met anyone who is not white, Protestant, and at least pretending to be heterosexual. Sometimes she's a grandmother (substitute "grammy" for "mommy" in previous quote). She prefers memorization to understanding and will not connect her assertion that Kool-Aid is just as good as "nasty chemical dyes" with her immediate questions as to why nobody can get proper blues with Kool-Aid.[2] She doesn't want people to give her complicated answers, but just to tell her what to do, even in situations where nobody else can.[3] She thinks three-step procedures are complicated. She thinks commiserating about husbands is always appropriate. She thinks bogus virus warnings are always on topic and throws fits when people point out that they're bogus (and then forwards the next one anyway). She thinks inane forwards are always on topic. She has the most passive-aggressive flamewars I've ever seen.

[1] It is possible to make the reproductive decision to have four or five children; these women just don't.

[2] Kool-Aid is often used to demonstrate dyeing or do simple dyeing when resources or kid-proof space are in short supply. It's not as consistent or colorfast as real dye and comes in a limited palette. It's fine to use, but denying its limitations is foolish.

[3] There is a concept in knitting called gauge: how many stitches or rows per inch a given knitter gets in a given stitch pattern with given yarn and needles. Different knitters knit at different tightnesses and so get different gauges, everything else being equal. It's possible to get a rough sense of someone's gauge by checking someone else's gauge in the same setting, but nobody else can check your gauge for you, because you have to knit it. Yourself. And then you have to measure it. (I'd put the snarky bit from Pratchett where Susan doesn't think the stable girls can handle complicated devices like rulers, but measurement is actually a little tricky because knitted fabric is stretchy and scrunchable.)

[identity profile] sithjawa.livejournal.com 2004-01-14 02:21 am (UTC)(link)
I've recently come to the conclusion that the form of "english" spoken online is, in fact, a seperate dialect. It's not (always) that the people using it don't know any better or want to be seen as idiots - they're just trying to speak the same language as everybody else.

So, for example, if you go into a chatroom, youll c tht all teh ppl there use the same dialect.

I, too, speak a dialect of English. It's not grammatically or technically correct, but it is a dialect common among most of my friends. It just happens to be the dialect that's also common among most literate English-speaking human beings on the Internet. 3y3 4ls0 5p33k 4 f3w 0th3r d14l3ktz 0v 3ngl1sh, although a native 5p33ker would be able to detect that I was *not* a native 5p33ker.

It just so happens that the most common dialect spoken in the internet is that spoken by l4m3rz. Someone should tell them how they sound to non-native speakers.

[identity profile] sistermaryeris.livejournal.com 2004-01-14 08:10 am (UTC)(link)
Come across those people way too often. I recently escaped AOL and there are tons of people on there who claim to be intellectuals or "know it all" and then can't spell, never make sense and nothing ever solves their issues. They can never try something because for whatever reason, it won't work. But they never tried.

Anyway, I share your pain.

[identity profile] thette.livejournal.com 2004-01-16 01:02 pm (UTC)(link)
I had the fortune of plummeting into one of the most literate groups on Usenet, and followed the crowd here. I'm so happy I escaped Lunarstorm, even though they've lessened the obnoxious *hugglies* and stuff. (Site in Swedish.)