I was, once, going to get married. My fiance was this guy, I was totally in love with him (or so I thought) and then I made friends who actually liked me for who I was.

Fiance went bye-bye.

Oddly enough, fiance was a swinger... he told me (when I mentioned to him that I had a crush on such and such a person) that it was OK by him if I dated this person ... under certain conditions. Either I was to give my fiance as much or more of my romantic attention as I was giving the new person, or my fiance would be allowed to pick up chicks in bars.

...My fiance wasn't 21 yet, though, so he really couldn't go to many bars.