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azurelunatic) wrote2002-04-14 02:31 am
azurelunatic) wrote2002-04-14 02:31 am
And here is the dance.
We're human. We go back and forth, in relationships, hurting each other. Latest:
V* has decided that I am Adam's "boss": he can't go anywhere, do anything, without my seal of approval. Despite his saying that this isn't so, she persists in teasing him about this, seemingly oblivious to how much it's hurting him.
He contemplated, and rejected, the idea of doing something to prove to her that I was not his boss. Laying aside the logical impossibility of proving a negative, this would have been very detrimental to me, as something severe enough to prove to her that I was not in fact his boss would have hurt me very badly.
He has been growing increasingly upset with the situation. Being human, there's the side of me that's jumping up and down and yodeling delight at some of the things, and there's the side of me that's growing increasingly worried at the larger amounts of emotional damage that are being passed back and forth.
He mentions in passing that while he considers her his best friend, it's one-sided. I remarked at how lucky I was to have picked Darkside for my mad unrequited crush.
Current situation: she called back, and he's outside on the phone with her now.
We'll see what happens.
V* has decided that I am Adam's "boss": he can't go anywhere, do anything, without my seal of approval. Despite his saying that this isn't so, she persists in teasing him about this, seemingly oblivious to how much it's hurting him.
He contemplated, and rejected, the idea of doing something to prove to her that I was not his boss. Laying aside the logical impossibility of proving a negative, this would have been very detrimental to me, as something severe enough to prove to her that I was not in fact his boss would have hurt me very badly.
He has been growing increasingly upset with the situation. Being human, there's the side of me that's jumping up and down and yodeling delight at some of the things, and there's the side of me that's growing increasingly worried at the larger amounts of emotional damage that are being passed back and forth.
He mentions in passing that while he considers her his best friend, it's one-sided. I remarked at how lucky I was to have picked Darkside for my mad unrequited crush.
Current situation: she called back, and he's outside on the phone with her now.
We'll see what happens.
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You might point out to him that if the *best* he can do for a friend is one who's treating him like that, then he has odd definitions for friend. Ask him, honestly, who in his life has been the best FRIEND to him, and see what he does with it.
You might also take this time to reassure him that it wasn't jealousy that caused your dislike of his relationship with V*, but simply that you and several of your friends had previous knowledge of the way she was going to be treating him, just no proof to lay before him. I must say, though, that he's handling it far better than I expected.
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Votania's Echo said it first, and I'm going to say it again: "Witches are not doormats."
He was just getting into the part where he compares me up against her (evidently he's been doing that lately...) and he was glad that I am interested in technological things, and like techno etc., rather than having less than no interest in gadgets, and liking country and Elton John.
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He was just going into that when she called him, and now he's still outside talking with her.
...You didn't see him earlier, though.
When your computer gets a virus, you unplug it from the network so you can isolate the virus and track down the damage to repair it. I love technological metaphors.
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I'll be here for him, dammit, even if she's pissing me off.