Slaying Virgins

[azurelunatic]

Got a friend who needs love advice. She has a virgin (male) who wants to have that situation taken care of. She, though having been married before, is of somewhat lesser experience, and would appreciate advice.

I sent her pointers towards The Red Book and everybody's favorite, the Kama Sutra. I've been gathering sex advice from my own experience, and Adam's been contributing too.

Any general helpful sex hints for the newbie would be appreciated.

Comments

[godai.livejournal.com]

Insert Tab A into Slot B.

Bah Humbug :P

[azurelunatic]

Yeah, we all know the basic mechanics.

So what if Tab A isn't exactly awake and ready for business?

[wiredferret.livejournal.com]

Patience, listening, and an acknowledgement that it will be more fun-frolic than deeply romantic. A matter-of-fact tone. Never, ever, ever saying something is wrong or bad. Compliments afterwards on what was good.

[azurelunatic]

Good ideas all. Any detailed tips on technique?