actually, I've been using the friends-only function a lot more these days. It's mostly to effect a TMI lock on some subjects... some of the friends locks are there to protect certain privacies: if there's a Real Name used, I automatically put it on friends lock...
Sometimes, if it's something I don't mind people knowing, if they care to look, but don't particularly want the whole world to know immediately, I friends-lock when posted, then go back and change status later.
He knows he's being teased, IRL. I often write up the exchanges we have, mostly for my own failing memory. (He knows about this: he's usually the one to detect when my memory's blanked a conversation we have. Illianesque, I've repeated: this was perhaps Tuesday.) I don't take jabs at the defenceless; if he's not reading it in here, it's a forum he can't defend himself in.
I talk shit about Shawn and BJ all the time, though. I suppose that's the difference between respect and lack thereof. Darkside, I respect.
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Sometimes, if it's something I don't mind people knowing, if they care to look, but don't particularly want the whole world to know immediately, I friends-lock when posted, then go back and change status later.
He knows he's being teased, IRL. I often write up the exchanges we have, mostly for my own failing memory. (He knows about this: he's usually the one to detect when my memory's blanked a conversation we have. Illianesque, I've repeated: this was perhaps Tuesday.) I don't take jabs at the defenceless; if he's not reading it in here, it's a forum he can't defend himself in.
I talk shit about Shawn and BJ all the time, though. I suppose that's the difference between respect and lack thereof. Darkside, I respect.