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[azurelunatic]

Do you believe in monogamy? View 501 Answers

I join the crowds who say "What kind of fool question is this?" and "Monogamy is not Santa Claus". Does monogamy care whether I believe in it? Would monogamy exist if I didn't believe in it?

But the intent of the question!

I believe that it is possible, in general, for some human beings to behave monogamously. I believe that some human beings are wired to pair-bond monogamously. I know that I am one of the humans that requires an intense pair-bond in order to behave monogamously, and that forcing me to behave monogamously in the absence of that pair-bond is a recipe for disaster.

I also know that it is unlikely for me to achieve a mutual pair-bond like that at this time. So monogamy can go suck it.

Comments

[azurelunatic]

You think I look at heterosexual porn for the men?

[raranax.livejournal.com]

By demographic you mean porn for hetero-men, porn for hetero women, porn for homo women, porn for homo men?

I think that the lines between those demographics are too blurry. Just because it is marketed at one demographic does not mean that it could not be marketed at another.

[azurelunatic]

How would a theoretical Heterosexuality Police be able to tell that I was watching porn with heterosexual pairings for the women?

[wibbble]

Eye-tracking would give it away, although haxxoring your webcam might be seen as being a /little/ invasive.

For extra-special invasiveness, there's the 'are you actually gay' test, which involves wearing a device which measures your level of arousal while they show you various types of porn and non-porn images.

I think that if they're going to be cocks and ban gay people from military service, 'don't ask, don't tell' is better than 'run a test to find out'.

[raranax.livejournal.com]

In the case above I was thinking more along the lines of him watching man-man porn.

Also I think most heterosexual porn is more focused on the woman. From the little I have seen it is mostly a girl and then a cock pokes on from some side of the screen.