YES! AND FOR ANOTHER THING ABUSERS ~UNIVERSALLY IMPOSE THEIR JUDGMENT ON THEIR VICTIMS AND DEMAND THEIR VICTIMS FORFEIT THEIR OWN JUDGMENT IN FAVOR OF THEIR ABUSERS'. ALL COGNITIVE BEHAVIOR TWATWASH RECAPITULATES THE FUNDAMENTAL DYNAMICS OF CHILD ABUSE AND SPOUSAL ABUSE: THAT OF AN AUTHORITY FIGURE ON WHICH ONE DEPENDS FOR CARE TELLING YOU THAT YOU MUST GIVE UP YOUR OWN UNDERSTANDING OF YOUR MIND IN FAVOR OF THEIRS TO RETAIN THEIR APPROVAL. IT IS POSSIBLE TO DO CBT WITH SURVIVORS OF ABUSE AND HAVE IT NOT RETRAUMATIZE THEM BUT THAT IS NOT THE WAY TO BET.