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Azure Jane Lunatic (Azz) 🌺 ([personal profile] azurelunatic) wrote2002-09-03 07:33 am
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Squeak.

Um. Dear friend. When I make a tasteless joke and you snap at me, don't expect me to be perfectly perky and cheerful any time within the next five minutes. I'm still trying to work out where your boundaries are, and your rebukes hurt, because I know I shouldn't have gone there.
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[personal profile] azurelunatic 2002-09-03 08:43 am (UTC)(link)
Someone got waaaay too excited over a planned BESM sourcebook coming out. "You can put it back in your pants now", I quipped.

I got told, in no uncertain terms, just how tasteless this joke had been.

[identity profile] iroshi.livejournal.com 2002-09-03 12:20 pm (UTC)(link)
Hmph. Would have been perfectly acceptable among *my* non-sexual-friends. ^_^
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[personal profile] azurelunatic 2002-09-03 12:46 pm (UTC)(link)
I really think someone was overreacting. But then, he is rather uptight. It's very difficult to figure out where the boundaries are with that guy...

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[identity profile] iroshi.livejournal.com 2002-09-03 01:21 pm (UTC)(link)
I think it's because he isn't sure where he wants the boundaries to be. That's why they keep changing on you, depending on his mood.
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[personal profile] azurelunatic 2002-09-03 01:25 pm (UTC)(link)
Could very well be.

If only he'd settle down as a few nice stable personalities, each with their own set of boundaries, and then tell me who he was at the moment so I would know where to step...

He's learning what happens when he snaps at me, and I'm learning to not vastly overreact. I think that an hour of general silence is far better than crying the eyes out and contemplating suicide.
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