What kind of geek am I?

True to yourself

Looks as if Adam and I will no longer be together.

In a long conversation with V, he was finally able to put words to the things that have been bothering him. He's going to change back to himself, be true to himself once more. He tried things, found that they were not him, and will be returning.

He expected me to pitch a fit over it. Not happening. Instead, he's been on the receiving end of hugs. Many hugs.

But ...

Why would I kick up a fuss, or mourn, at a good friend being true to themself? Hugs and support are due instead, and a list of the things that support might be wanted for.

Many hugs, and a listening ear.

*sigh* ...hugs and snuggles

Adam doesn't feel quite right snuggled up against me anymore. It still would have felt good to me...

My two main reservations about his fitness as a long-term partner: one, that religion is a major barrier to longterm intimacy to him; two, his temper. I had to grow up with a father with that temper. My children will not.

Other than that... I could see myself holding hands with him at ninety-one and ninety.

Whee! (girlbonding)

Got to talk with wiredferret tonight. Aired a few of the things I'd been needing to say about life in general.

Before that, called Darkside. He gave me the requisite thwaps about last night. He and I will discuss it in further detail on Monday.