Does anyone have any tips/tricks/ways of easing the introduction of a third parent into a viable two-parent household?
votania and I have lived together for almost two years now, since April 2001. She has a son, who was four when we moved in together. His biological father has been conspicuous by his absence since before his birth. Votania, Little Fayoumis, and I had a somewhat rough period of settling in, but everything has run relatively smoothly after that.
votania is now in a relationship with her old friend
marxdarx, who has been living with us off and on for over a year, but has now moved in for good. She and he are currently beginning to co-parent.
Little Fayoumis is having a difficult time adjusting to this. We all are. Tensions were rising dangerously for a while; we've got somewhat better organized communications now, but it's still difficult.
In summary, all of us are having some difficulty adjusting to
marxdarx being a co-parent rather than just a roommate or a houseguest. Does anyone have suggestions, tips to try or to avoid, encouraging stories of how they survived, anything?